Author Archives: xavier_j

I am not able, it seems, to meet goals. That is why I don’t set myself any. Or maybe I do only to beat myself up when I fail. Maybe I just don’t want to meet my goals because I do not … Continue reading →

I don’t want to post pictures here. However, the someone that, so far, has had the biggest impact on my life is my 7 yo son. He’s birth begun my my late and direly needed transition into adulthood. He gave … Continue reading →

My current celebrity crush is Phil Heath. I mostly like his eyes and his general demeanor. From his tweets I gather he is also rather straightforward and has a healthy sense of humor. My kind of man.

Here it goes: My Father’s Eyes, Eric Clapton Mer girl, Madonna If My Sister’s In Trouble, Lady Soul, Sister Act OST You Gotta Be, Des’ree Nothing To Lose, Des’ree Hold My Hand (Duet with Akon), Michael Jackson California Dreamin’, Queen … Continue reading →

Of all places I choose Amsterdam. I wish I had pictures from Moscow, but I did not have a camera at the time, 14 years ago.

Watching too much porn comes to mind first but when I think of it, it is not as awful as deprecating myself in conversation with gay men. This is a big turn off for them and makes a looser out of me. I … Continue reading →

Here I go: I am gay. Well, you may know that already, but still… I have a 7 y.o. son. I used to be afraid to ride elevators by myself. Today I can manage. I am somewhat afraid of heights. … Continue reading →

I will be undertaking the 30-day blog challenge. Well, I may not post everyday but the next 30 posts will be nothing else. It is a welcomed break from the recent past and a chance to reflect on things about … Continue reading →